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Putting kids in the know
The web is another big, wide world for kids to explore – and just like teaching them to cross the road, read a book or ride a bike, they need a helping hand to do it safely.
What your children should be aware of
We think it's better to warn your child about the dangers than shelter them completely. As soon as they’re old enough to use the web, they’re old enough to know about the risks. That’s why we’ve made a list of things we think all children should know before they use the web.
1. People aren’t always who they say they are on the web
People you meet online are strangers and should be treated that way. Never let your child arrange to meet up with someone they've met online – unless you are there to supervise.
2. Some sites are unsafe
It's up to you as a parent to decide what content is suitable for your kids. You could, for example, be unhappy with them visiting un-moderated chat rooms or using file-sharing programs. Talk through your choices with them and check regularly to make sure they are sticking to them.
3. Be careful about what you like on your online profiles
Information is easily shared once it's on sites such as Facebook or MySpace, so make sure your child knows to only post pictures, videos or information that you’d be happy for others to see.
4. Never give out any personal details to anyone online
This includes name, home address, email address, phone and mobile numbers, bank details, PIN numbers, passwords, school name, photos or anything else that might help identify your child in the real world. When choosing a username on any site, make sure they pick a nickname and not their real name.
5. Only chat with people you know in the real world
If your child must talk to strangers in online chat rooms or using a webcam, tell them you need to supervise them.
6. Never respond to rude, obscene or threatening messages
This includes messages in chat rooms, online forums or email. If your child receives any, you can report it to the Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (CEOP).
7. Never open emails or files from people you don't know
They might contain viruses that could harm your computer or explicit content.
8. You can always talk about your experiences on the web
Your child should always feel comfortable enough to tell you about any frightening or bullying emails or messages they get with unacceptable content. Be there to talk to them whenever they need it.
Extra help for children
thinkuknow
Lots of useful information about web safety for children. It caters for children of all ages, with content aimed at five to seven-year-olds, eight to ten-year-olds or 11 to 16-year-olds.
Beatbullying
Beatbullying works with children and young people who have been affected by bullying through digital technologies.
Childline
ChildLine is run by the NSPCC and operated by trained volunteer counsellors. It is the UK's free, 24-hour helpline for children in distress or danger.
Children can call Childline on 0800 11 11.